The last few times I have asked Bethel to come, she’s come happily and been rewarded with big hugs and kisses. “Mommy is so happy when you obey!” I still need to be asking her more. I forget. I deliberately avoid times when I suspect she won’t obey quickly or happily (when she’s grumpy or tired or very engaged in something). I want her to know the success and joy of obeying before I start making the task harder. Don’t worry! The hard stuff will come.