Category: Fear

When I Am Afraid…

Last night I awoke in a foggy blur to a little voice calling my name. At my side was Bethel, saying, “I was afraid you were not back yet.” I assured her that we had gotten back from our date soon after they were asleep, gave her a hug and kiss, and then asked her [...]

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What If They Never Saw You Cry?

What if your children never saw you cry? Would that be a good thing? More importantly, what if they never saw what to do when mom is sick or sad or afraid?
Children don’t tend to like tears. They don’t like being reminded that they are vulnerable. And when their rock– mom and dad– appears unstable, [...]

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When the Lights Go Out

Tonight we lost power for an hour. Thankfully, I had already let the kids talk me into eating by candlelight (you do this sort of thing for poor children who are probably in the throes of grief because their father is on the other side of the earth). As I relit the candles, and found [...]

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Mary’s Bitter Cup

Every day my children hear me talk about Lee’s deployment with someone. I suppose they’re getting a heaping dose of learning something about God. Here is what they’ve been hearing the last few days.
Mary was a teenager when Gabriel first came to her and told her that she was highly favored and chosen to be [...]

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Avoiding Pain

Last night instead of blogging, I did some proofreading for my mom. I loved the article/ handout she is doing, and so instead of posting my thoughts, I’m including some of hers!
David was not a casual believer, but one who interacted with God on a daily basis and grew in his understanding of who God [...]

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Is Obeying by Fear a Bad Thing?

Is obeying out of fear a bad thing?
Ummm, no, not if we read God’s Word. The Bible says that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, which Jesus defines as hearing and obeying God’s Word.
Obeying out of love is obviously a more mature motive, but the sad truth is that we humans [...]

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Fear of Man and Following the Crowd

Yesterday morning I was reading about Rehoboam and Jereboam, Solomon’s sons. I figured it would be a good topic of discussion at breakfast this morning.
I asked David and Bethel if they thought King Solomon’s children would be wise, since they had such a wise daddy. I told them that I was going to read from [...]

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Diagnosing Fear: Bible Deficiency

Do you ever worry about whether you’re doing things right? Worry about the next assignment or deployment? Worry about family, worry about finances?
I found myself worrying last night, and this is what I read.
And, behold, there arose a great tempest in the sea, insomuch that the ship was covered with the waves: but he was [...]

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Still Thinking about Courage

The American Heritage Dictionary defines courage as: “The state or quality of mind or spirit that enables one to face danger, fear, or vicissitudes with self-possession, confidence, and resolution; bravery.”
You can probably see a resemblance to the Latin cor, for heart.
Notice that courage could come from self-reliance or pride rather than from remembering our God.  [...]

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Bravery and Fear

On the way home from church last night, one of my fascinating children talked about being afraid a year ago watching fireworks on July 4. I’m still interested in knowing how they understand fear, and I was particularly fascinated to wonder why this memory was brought up at that time. (We were merely looking at [...]

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    Chronological Bible: ESV
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