I have a peculiar habit. When it is time to get up (unless there’s a baby crying or other situation needing immediate attention), I avoid getting up until the clock is at a zero or five. So I’ll say, “I’ll get up at 7:10.” If I miss 7:10, I really will wait until the next nice number. It’s sort of like getting a good start on the morning, although I know it’s pretty irrational. The good part is, zeros and fives come often, so if I miss one, a new zero or five will be around soon.
First Corinthians 13 tells us what that love involves. Love does not seek her own interests– it is not selfish. I’m going to try to see how often remembering that passage helps me to do what is right today. I’m going to pray God helps me. Since I spent the last hour reading, I think I need that passage today. On the bright side, my children were up late and so are not yet awake. That’s the great thing about being a stay-at-home mom: you have many opportunities for a new start.
What decisions have you made recently that demonstrate love for your children instead of yourself? Or am I the only one?
Hi Michelle- You are not the only one! I’ve actually been thinking alot about this. It’s easy to meet my needs before my kids and I have been greatly convicted. For one, I have been spending more time playing with them rather than getting things done around the house or for my own enjoyment. ( Playing dollies, puzzles, dress up, store 🙂 ) I’ve been trying to plan better meals rather than the easy way out. ( not just the same ole– hot dog, lima beans and a cheese stick:) When I make conscious efforts to show them more love, I really don’t desire “my things” as much… the computer, a nap, laundry. Yes, these things are important, but I am finding that spending more time WITH them allows me to stay on top of the important things, but most importantly, keeping a continuous dialogue about God. Its much easier when I am not focusing on me. I have a long way to go, but God has been gracious to show me how to deny myself more and more. To Him be the glory!
Great thoughts. They were an encouragement to me, thanks.